Justin says: Keep trying.
Wow, I thought you and Kali would be best friends forever! You’ve always been incredibly close, and I think it would be a mistake to walk away from all that shared history. You don’t need to hang out constantly to save the friendship—you just need to stay connected in the ways that work best for you.
It’s great that you and Kali are finding new friends and following new interests, but that doesn’t mean you can’t bond over other stuff. You still share some passions, like listening to K-pop and singing—so why not continue to enjoy those things together?
The truth is, friendships change—and that’s OK! It’s important to learn how to work on a relationship instead of giving up on it. If you tell Kali what you’re thinking, it might lead to an honest and helpful conversation. On the other hand, if you let the friendship fizzle, she might always wonder if she did something wrong. Is that really how you want this
to end?